Children fight with each
other for what seems like the silliest reasons. Mine are no different, even as
I am typing this, I have had to stop already to intervene in a battle over who
can use the shiny mechanical pencil. (Are you kidding me?!?) For the past year
and a half, I interrupt my girls fighting with one question.
“Is this clash important or can you use all that
energy to debate something that will change lives, like end human trafficking
or solve world hunger?”
More often than not, they stop and realize what
they have chosen to be mad over is not worth the hate they are putting out
there. This week I threw another question in the mix after they have resolved
to stop fighting, asking my girls “What is Good?” Simple enough, but this
has challenged them to really consider in the aftermath of the fight. Taking it one step further, they now consider
that their fight may not be worthwhile, and they have to think about something
good in their life.
I have just about quit
watching or reading the news. I am down to getting highlights from two daily five-minute
podcasts from both sides of the spectrum. While this may leave me out of the
loop, it has also lightened my load of superfluous hate being spread through
politically aligned news feeds filling my screen. I want to gather everyone into the same room
and ask them, “Is this clash important or can you use all that energy to debate
something that will change lives, like end human trafficking or solve world
hunger?” and “What is good?”
One job I have as a follower of Christ is to
share the good with as many people as I can. To show each individual the love
that is overwhelmingly good, the love from God that keeps us and restores us.
Mark 16:15 say, “Go into all the world and proclaim the Gospel to the whole
creation.” Gospel is the Old English translation of the Bible that simply means
Good News.
What is the good news? In one word it is Love. Simple, unassuming, love.
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one
and only Son that whoever believes in Him would not perish but have eternal
life.” John 3:16
The Good News of God’s love is our goal, to be
that love for people both inside and outside the church. My husband is great at
this, telling everyone that Jesus loves them. It comes so naturally, and he is
unafraid to show that love to people. Surprisingly,
I am not great with the words portion of this, due in part to my fearful
introverted side, but I keep in mind to show love as I move about my day. No, I’m
not perfect at this and yes I do get angry, especially at the person on the
phone thinking they are driving remarkably, while constantly crossing that
delicate yellow line meant to protect us from each other. (that’s a whole other
story)
How can we show love? Going forward, I challenge
you to figure out if the differences we see in people is worth a fight, then ask
yourself, “What is Good?”
It is hard to look someone in the eye and hate that person if you see them through the lens of God’s Love.
Have a blessed day and look for the beauty among
the rubble.